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What Others Might Be Telling You About the Caregiver Stress You’re Experiencing

Caregiver Stress in Jamaica NY

Caregiver Stress in Jamaica NYYou’ve been experiencing a great deal of stress ever since you became a caregiver for your elderly father. You, your brother, and your sister all commented over the years about how stubborn he could be and you knew this was going to be a difficult task. You just didn’t anticipate how much stress it was going to cause your life.

Every day you feel as though you’re not getting enough sleep, dragging through the days at work, giving up too much time at work to answer the phone when he calls or skip out early to help him when he tells you he’s not going to wait to attempt something for too long and you have been getting into trouble with your boss, your productivity is down, and maybe even your entire career is in jeopardy.

You do everything you can to support him, stopping over in the morning before work, making time in the afternoon, and spending three or four hours every evening to help him prepare a meal, get him ready for bed, and make sure the home is safe for another night alone.

You get so frustrated that it has created a number of arguments and other tension between the two of you and you have found that you are getting short tempered with your spouse, children, friends, and even coworkers.

Most people have a tendency to be patient, at least to a certain extent, when somebody they care about is dealing with a difficult situation such as this. At the same time, though, every time you begin talking about your frustrations, things you wish you could do, or that your father is simply not listening to you, those people who matter most in your life they are also trying to tell you things that you are not hearing.

Your friends, spouse, adult children, siblings, other family members, and even coworkers may have a great deal of sound advice that can make a world of difference for you and your father. Are you listening to it? Or are you so focused on being right, being appreciated, or keeping him safe that you’re missing out on something more important?

Far too often people endure caregiver stress unnecessarily. They could rely on home care support instead. This is commonly what many people would likely be telling you to consider, if you only took the time to listen properly.

If you or an aging loved one are considering professional caregiver services in Jamaica, NY please contact the caring staff at Gentle Hands Home Care LLC. Call today! 347-809-4407

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Doreen Johnson

I have been the Administrator/Owner of Gentle Hands Home Care since its inception in 2012. I chose to work in this industry because I am passionate and believe strongly in facilitating safe, independent living for the elderly in the privacy of their own home. I love working in the New York area due to the diversity of the population and I personally enjoy the love and passion of being able to care for our Elderly population. It has always been a long term goal for me to provide adequate care, comfort, and companionship for our aging population. My passion, and life experiences provide the backbone for the core objective of Gentle Hands Home Care, which is to provide the best services with caring, experienced, and compassionate caregivers, not because you are a client but because you are family.

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