In life, there are plenty of moments when we question our motivations, what the right thing to do is, and even if we actually know the right path upon which to travel. When you have any type of concern about your aging mother, father, or other loved one and their safety at home, talking about various senior care options may be something that comes up.
It’s easy to shy away from these topics.
Because of concerns about how this individual, this elderly parent, is going to perceive comments, suggestions, or even advice about their ability to take care of themselves, many of us have a tendency to shy away from these conversations. We know that home care is a great option to consider, but you might be in a position where you don’t want to offend your mother, worry about damaging the relationship, or even have other family members question why you wouldn’t be the one to take care of her.
Home care is often the best option.
Hiring an experienced and professional home care aide is one of the best options for anyone to consider. That’s because experienced caregivers have a great deal of insight and understanding into the best ways to provide support for those who need it.
It’s also the most affordable senior care option there is.
Your mother, you, and maybe the rest of your family might not have the financial resources to pay for full-time care in a nursing home or assisted living community, but with a home care aide providing at least minimal support and assistance for your mother, it is highly affordable.
If you notice your mother having difficulty with her mobility, struggling with certain health issues, or having other challenges that make it difficult for her to get through each day, that means it’s the right time to sit down and have this discussion.
Before you actually start talking about home care options, learn as much as you can about them, the average cost, availability, and just about anything you can think of that your mother can throw at you as a way to derail the conversation.
When you’re armed with more facts, you can counter arguments against home care and help your mother see that this isn’t a last option, but one of the best first options. When she realizes how much you care and how much you’ve devoted to finding out about home care options, she will be more likely to listen to what you have to say.
If you or an aging loved one are considering home care for a senior in Penfield, NY, contact the caring staff at Caring Hearts of Rochester today! Serving Rochester, Pittsford, Greece, Webster, Canandaigua, Fairport, Perinton, Penfield, Brighton, Henrietta and surrounding communities. Call 585-245-0134.
Kevin and his wife, Candy, lived in Naples, Florida for 10 years, where three of their four children were born. He was recruited to the insurance industry by a colleague who felt his personality would benefit people with needs. The insurance industry became a big part of their lives. He evaluated peoples’ risks, working with property and casualty, and life products, and later began to underwrite Long Term Care insurance as people were beginning to plan for their futures. He started two agencies, then bought a third. In his last three years before selling his third agency, he was ranked in the top 10%, top 5% & then top 1% nationally out of the more than 12,500 Allstate agencies in the U.S. at the time. Kevin’s success can be accredited to his kind nature and his genuine desire to help individuals and families with their needs. He feels very at home meeting with people and discussing their needs, a trait that has been very helpful in his continued success with Caring Hearts of Rochester. Kevin returned to Rochester in 2006 to introduce their young children to snow and to be closer to his extended family.
After having returned to Rochester from their careers in other states, John and Kevin reconnected. Alzheimer’s had afflicted both of their families, and they had both experienced and witnessed the challenges associated with the role of being a caregiver. Kevin’s and John’s collective experiences complemented their desire to work with families and individuals in need. They founded Caring Hearts of Rochester and have since been able work in a capacity that has become a passion for them. They are both Certified Senior Advisors (CSA), a designation earned through education, study and experience in the Elderly and Geriatric Care Profession. Their number one concern is providing their senior clients with ethical and effective services and products. Caring Hearts of Rochester is associated with numerous local affiliations for the elderly in the Upstate NY area including Lifespan, Eldersource, and the Greater Rochester Area Partnership for the Elderly.
As the co-founders and hands-on managers of Caring Hearts of Rochester, we thank you for this opportunity to tell you about our passion. We are responsible for the services we offer, for the people we hire, for the training they receive, for the quality and reliability of the services our team delivers to you and your loved ones. Give us a call so that we may learn more about you and your needs at (585) 861-CARE(2273)
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